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A Therapist’s Journey: Insights on Loneliness from The Good Morning Britain Bus

Loneliness is a silent epidemic that affects millions of people worldwide, transcending age, gender and social status. It’s a pervasive feeling that can impact both physical and mental health.

As a therapist, I’ve had the privilege of working with individuals grappling with loneliness, but my recent experience as the featured counsellor on The Good Morning Britain bus in Brighton provided me with a unique opportunity to delve deeper into this pressing issue and connect with people on a personal level.

It was an honour to be invited to join the Good Morning Britain team and address the topic of loneliness. The idea of taking therapy out of the office and onto a bus was an innovative way to reach individuals who might not otherwise seek help. As I stepped onto the brightly decorated Route Master bus on that sunny morning in Brighton, I knew I was embarking on a journey that would be both enlightening and emotionally stirring.

Loneliness Does Not Discriminate 

The first thing that struck me during my time on the bus was the sheer diversity of people who came to speak with me. Loneliness does not discriminate and it became evident that individuals from all walks of life were struggling with this profound sense of isolation. From young adults who felt disconnected in the digital age to elderly individuals grappling with the loss of loved ones, loneliness manifested itself in various forms and at all stages of life.

As I listened to their stories, a common thread emerged: the importance of human connection. Loneliness, it seemed, was not just about being physically alone; it was about feeling disconnected from others, emotionally adrift in a sea of people. Many of those who approached me yearned for meaningful relationships, whether it was with friends, family, or romantic partners. They craved genuine, authentic connections that went beyond surface-level interactions.

One of the key takeaways from my experience on The Good Morning Britain bus was the profound impact that loneliness can have on mental and emotional well-being. Loneliness can lead to feelings of sadness, anxiety, and even depression. It can erode self-esteem and hinder personal growth. It can also have detrimental effects on physical health, increasing the risk of conditions such as heart disease and hypertension. Loneliness, I realised, was not a trivial concern but a significant public health issue that needed attention.

So, what advice can I offer to those struggling with loneliness today?

Here Are Some Key Insights

Reach Out

If you’re feeling lonely, don’t be afraid to reach out to others. Whether it’s a friend, family member, or therapist, sharing your feelings can be the first step toward building meaningful connections.

Join Communities

Seek out groups or communities that share your interests and values. Whether it’s a hobby club, a volunteer organisation, or an online support group, connecting with like-minded individuals can help alleviate feelings of loneliness.

Practice Self-Compassion 

Loneliness often comes with self-criticism and negative self-talk. Practice self-compassion by treating yourself with kindness and understanding. Remember that it’s okay to feel lonely at times; it’s a universal human experience.

Limit Social Media

While social media can be a tool for connection, it can also exacerbate feelings of loneliness by fostering unrealistic comparisons and shallow interactions. Be mindful of your online presence and consider taking breaks when needed.

Professional Help 

If loneliness is overwhelming and persistent, don’t hesitate to seek professional help. Therapists, counsellors, and support groups can provide valuable guidance and support in addressing loneliness and its underlying causes.

Embrace Solitude 

Loneliness and solitude are not the same. Solitude can be a time for self-reflection and personal growth. Use moments of solitude to reconnect with yourself and discover your passions and interests.


Helping others can be a powerful antidote to loneliness. Volunteering not only provides a sense of purpose but also offers opportunities to form meaningful connections with people who share your altruistic values.

Helping You Battle Loneliness

My time on The Good Morning Britain bus was an unforgettable experience that reinforced the importance of addressing loneliness in our society. Loneliness is not a sign of weakness but a natural human emotion that can affect anyone. It’s a reminder that we all need connection and support to thrive.

As a therapist, I’m grateful for the opportunity to have listened to the wonderful people of Brighton and to have shared in their experiences. Loneliness may be a pervasive issue, but it’s one that can be overcome with the right support, understanding, and a willingness to reach out to others. Let us all remember that we are not alone in our struggle against loneliness, and there is hope for brighter, more connected days ahead.